Laura, 34 (pictured), is single since 2004 and does not have children.
LAURA, 34
The history of a relationship
I’ve had three serious relationships, but none lasted longer than a couple of years. After I broke up with my previous boyfriend, I went to Switzerland and worked there for three years.
Because my French was poor and the area was quiet, it was hard to find someone there.
Pre-Date Nerves?
No, I’m used to meeting new people with work. However, I loved telling my friend all about it and picked out mini dresses and boots for her to wear.
First Impressions
David arrived only a few minutes before me. He greeted me with a big smile and genuine warmth; I could tell he’s a lovely person.
It’s easy to talk with?
We didn’t have much in common. I love football, and support Arsenal, but couldn’t believe he wasn’t interested in it. I’ve never met anyone who doesn’t love football.
He was looking down at his smartphone several times as though he wanted to see the time. He had mentioned he had somewhere to go afterwards, so I didn’t mind, but perhaps he was also keen for the date to end. I normally put my phone away when I’m with people. The fact that he was so passionate and ambitious about his work is something I appreciated.
Are You Embarrassed by These Moments?
As if there was some place to go, he kept looking at his phone.
Nah, or at least that’s what I hope. Perhaps I spoke too often.
Sparks Fly
Not at all. I definitely didn’t fancy him and he wasn’t flirting with me either. After the date ended, we both walked together to the station where we said goodbye.
We thought that we were going in the same direction, so it was awkward. It turned out that we were actually on two different trains.
Do you want to have a second chance?
Most likely not. If I saw him out and about I’d happily go and chat, but we wouldn’t arrange to meet.
How do you imagine he felt about you?
He might have thought I was too corporate. He works in the arts and I’ve mostly worked for big firms. His impression might be that I’m a very talkative person. I got the impression he’s a little shy.
Do you think your family would like him?
Everybody who knows me would realise he’s not a good match for me.
David, aged 34 (pictured), is single since he was 22 and has never had any children.
DAVID, 34
The history of a relationship
I’ve been single for two years. Three years ago, I was involved in a committed relationship. However, we discovered that we had different priorities in our lives. Since then, I’ve done some online dating.
Pre-Date Nerves?
Both nervous and excited, I felt. So, to give a great first impression, I chose smart grey trousers and shirt along with formal shoes.
First Impressions
Laura’s not the type of girl I’d usually go for. In terms of physical characteristics, my type is curvier. Laura also behaved quite formally in my opinion; she almost seemed like someone you’d meet in an office environment. Still, I’m open-minded. We both initially felt outmatched, but that was quickly forgotten.
It’s easy to talk with?
Our conversation covered a wide range of topics, including British culture, politics, and Covid. It was a great way to bring the world together. We talked about Euro 2020 and the horrible racism that followed. Also, we discussed cancel culture and what the consequences are for some.
These conversations are my favorite and I enjoyed some banter. But I’m into music while she’s into football, so we didn’t have much in common. Laura puts her heart and soul into her work. She is driven to make her career a success, which motivated me to push on my own.
Her manner was quite formal – like someone you’d meet at work
Are You Embarrassed by These Moments?
It’s not at all, thankfully.
Sparks Fly
There wasn’t any flirting on my side, but while I didn’t see any potential for romance, I did enjoy her company. We didn’t swap numbers and it was a little awkward as neither of us knew how to end the date. After walking to the station we said our goodbyes and then went on in separate directions.
Do you want to have a second chance?
Perhaps socially.
You wonder what she thinks of you.
I think we probably mirrored each other’s sentiments. We’re both focused on our careers and had mutual respect for our ambitions.
Are your friends and family like her?
She might struggle to fit into my circle of creative people, but they certainly wouldn’t dislike her.
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