A horrified widow has shared the sexually aggressive messages that her late husband’s coworker sent her, in which he praised her ‘f**kable hips’ and asked her out on a date — just one month after her husband died.
The widow posted screenshots of the ‘inappropriate’ and ‘creepy’ conversation on Reddit, capturing how the man began by telling her she was ‘beautiful’ and he didn’t want to ‘screw up’ his ‘chance’ with her.
He said, “Your husband’s a very lucky man,” but then he corrected himself, saying: “Was.
When the woman made it clear she was not interested, the man continued to beg, insisting: ‘Your husband would want you to be with a man he knows will treat you right. You will be treated well in all aspects.
A distraught widow sent the abusive text messages her husband’s colleague had sent to her, just one month after his death.
He wrote: “Your husband is a fortunate man,” before correcting himself by writing: “Was”
He inquired if she would like to go out for dinner, and said that he knew her husband well so he could understand what she was looking for in a man.
It appears that the man and the widow met each other before they exchanged Instagram DMs.
In an extremely tone-deaf manner, he immediately mentioned her husband’s passing.
He wrote, “Was deeply hurt to learn he had passed,” “I just lost my dog so I understand how you feel, and I am here to help if needed.”
He went on to ask about her nationality — which has been blurred out — and told her, ‘Thought so. The hips of women from your country are amazing.
After telling her that her husband is — no, was — a lucky man, the woman snapped.
She replied, “Thanks for clarification, would’ve known what you meant, if you didn’t include the “was” there,”
After apologizing for his rudeness, he said that he was just trying to get over it.
“Screw it up?” He replied “Screw what up?”
Although the woman replied that she wasn’t ready for something like that, the man refused to take it as an answer.
‘I’m a good guy I promise. He wrote that he only needs one date. “I am free Friday.” Also Saturday.
The rejection became so painful that he began to turn nasty. He apologized and tried again.
Although she had told him she wasn’t ready for a date, he insisted and said that her husband would want her to marry a man who will respect her.
She ultimately stopped answering him and he backed down – but many people found the interaction unsettling
He asked her if she was interested after she said she didn’t want to be involved.
She said again that she was not interested.
“I know your husband and what you want in a man. He replied, “I’m able to provide this.” “Please, I only ask for one date. It will be obvious that I am worth the effort.
He was told by the woman that she wasn’t interested in dating at this time and asked her to respect her decision.
‘Of course I respect women [and]He said, “Their choices,” before the rejection started to sting. Then he got nasty.
“Should have known” that you weren’t really a beautiful face. He said, “You’re not that pretty.”
He was not ready to quit, but he wrote: “Sorry for any inconvenience.” I was sorry. I will make amends. Take me out to dinner.
He continued, “I’m available tonight,” he said. “I’ll bring food. I still [have]From the moment I got here, your address.
The woman replies simply, “No.
“Your husband wants you to have a good relationship with a man who will be kind and fair.” You will be treated well in all aspects. I can take care of women. Particularly ones like you. Such f**kable hips.’
The woman commented that she thought he was weird and she had considered sending him the screenshots.
Comments slammed the man, calling him names like ‘a total piece of s**t’ and ‘psychotic’ and sent the woman their support
She sent her last message to him and she replied “I’m too sober to deal” with it.
“OK. No more chances.” He said good-bye.
She stated that the man had left her four messages, which she declined to reveal. He was also a strange person, she said. She was thinking of sending him the screenshots.
“I don’t know if it will make things worse, but I am not certain,” she said. “I will sleep on it.”
Commenters found the interaction unsettling and took to the comment section to slam the coworker, calling him names like ‘a total piece of s**t’ and ‘psychotic.’
‘What criteria do you have to meet to get a restraining order because this is some psycho s**t,’ one person wrote.
“Honestly, I don’t know if it’s real. The tone is so off-putting and insensitive. His boss should be contacted immediately and these screenshots sent. ‘He’s [a] complete and total piece of s**t.’
Someone else replied, “I am actually shocked.” ‘I’ve met plenty of a**hole guys but this is on a different level. This is dangerously disturbing.
Reddit user X wrote, “I’m sorry your spouse passed. It’s doubly unfortunate that such a waste of skin was as stupid and self-centered as possible.