The signs that you are being cheated by a partner: A psychologist reveals how to tell if your partner has a secret relationship.

  • Psychologist Daniel Acon has shared a lesser-known tip to spot a cheater 
  • The US expert suggests analysing what your partner says  
  • He said to take note if your partner accuses you of cheating without evidence
  • It could indicate that they are talking to or cheating others 










An expert psychologist divulged a less-known way to detect cheaters.

Daniel Acon recommends that you analyse what your partner is saying, rather than taking notes of their facial expressions and behaviours.

In an recent video on Instagram, Mr Acon (from the US) stated that it is possible for your partner to act suspiciously or accuse you of cheating with no hard evidence. This could signal they aren’t faithful.

He began by saying, “Disclaimer, this only works if they trust you, else they may be right about how they feel.”

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Psychologist Daniel Acon (pictured) shared how to spot a cheater based on what they say

He said if your partner acts suspiciously and accuses you of cheating without any hard evidence, this could be a red flag they are unfaithful

Daniel Acon (pictured), a psychiatrist, shared tips for spotting cheaters by listening to what they have to say

Acon states, “If someone is dating you and starts accusing you or worrying that you are talking to others without evidence it often means they are cheating.”

“They are just concerned that you do the same thing.”

He also explained how projection, a psychological term that refers to this behavior in psychology, is used and stated: “People project their inner thoughts onto others.”

Many were amazed by the clip, but others weren’t so sure.  

‘Not really. Commenter: “What happens if somebody has anxiety or fear of being abandoned?”

“What about trauma from being cheated on?” Another asked Mr Acon, and he replied with, “Absolutely. I didn’t tell you this every time.”

Another added, “I fear I might get hurt if I don’t protect myself.”

'If you're dating someone and they start accusing you of cheating or they're worried that you're talking to other people without any evidence, it usually means that they're cheating and talking to other people,' Acon says (stock image)

Acon says, “If someone accuses you of cheating on you, or you worry that other people are listening to you, that usually indicates that they’re cheating on you.” Stock image

It follows after Australian relationship expert Louanne Ward revealed the key signs to look out for that signal you might be the other woman or man.

Relationship expert Louanne Ward (pictured) shared the most common signs that you may be an innocent bystander in a complicated love triangle

Relationship expert Louanne Ward (pictured) shared the most common signs that you may be an innocent bystander in a complicated love triangle

Louanne stated that anyone who has ever been the recipient of an unfaithful spouse will have many unanswered queries.

“And if you’ve ever had to deal with a cheating spouse, it’s possible that you felt anger and hatred for them.

“But, what if the third party is blind? Every story has a side. What can you do to tell if the man who’s chasing you has already been taken?

Louanne says there are two scenarios: Your partner enjoys the excitement of multiple partners, or you and your partner have a double life.

Louanne explained that people who commit repeat offenses and have been in relationships for a long time are usually seasoned professionals. This makes it difficult to determine if someone is trying to peruse you.

Let’s take a look at this scenario. It’s finally happened. But, something is not right.

“Hear the warning signs and check this list. You could easily be in a relationship with someone who sounds like you.

Signs that your partner is a woman or a man

* Dates are spontaneous and there are no long-term plans 

* Most of your phone calls happen during the day 

* Evening correspondence will be via text and there will be delayed replies

* You are likely to have never been to their house or met family or friends 

* You don’t go to venues near their house 

* They will likely pay with things in cash a lot of the time 

* They will react defensively if you question them too much  

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