A dating coach who charges $10,000 (£7,000) to help clients find ‘the one’ justified her hefty price tag by claiming she’s ‘on-demand’ and ‘obsessed’ with her clients – and will even accompany them on dates.
Amy Nobile from New York is a dating coach and claims an 88% success rate. Today, she appeared on This Morning to talk about how she used to make dating her “job” and that it was meeting five people every day.
Since then, she went on to launch dating app Love, Amy, but viewers and presenter Alison Hammond were shocked to hear she charges a hefty $10,000 sum for her four month program.
Amy spoke out about the exorbitant fee:This is really fascinating. Our lives will include a variety of items, such as professional coaches or nutritional coaches.
“Love is undoubtedly the most important aspect of life. It is so valuable to embark on a journey that will enable you to discover your special someone.
Amy Nobile from New York is a dating coach and claimed to have a 80% success rate.
According to the dating coach, she tells clients that there shouldn’t be any sex until they have reached four dates. Photo: Alison Hammond and Dermot Oleary
“I’m also an extremely unique coach,” she continued. You usually get professional coaches at the same price, but you only pay for a few hours per month. They can also be emailed. My role is that of an “on-demand” coach. Because I have a limit on the number of clients I take, I can’t help but be obsessed with each one.
I can be reached from the toilet during a date if a client calls me. You can count on me to answer your calls and be with you every step of my way.
During the segment of the show, Amy explained how her dating app was the ‘most unexpected career twist of my life.’
She said, “I love it so much.” “I am serial entrepreneur. I’ve written four books designed to empower women.
“While writing my last book on reinventing oneself, I came to the realization that it was time for me to end my 20 year marriage. I was married 26 years and had two lovely teenagers. That was the hardest decision I have ever made in my entire life.
“I found myself in a single dating scene for the first times in more than two decades. It was scary. I tried dating old school, but everyone said they would set me up.
“I went to coffee shops, and everybody was staring at their smartphones. I realized that online dating apps were the best way to find people. However, they can be intimidating.
Amy shared how Bumble helped her find the man of her dreams three and a half years ago. They’re now engaged. Photo of them together
Amy (right) explains that her “most unexpected career turn of my life” was her dating app
“I made the decision to crack this code. It’s not something I recommend, but it made me a better person. Some days I was dating up to five or six people per day. My mistakes have helped me in my new job as a coach for dating.
“And three and a half years ago, I met the love of mine on Bumble. We just got married.” Love, Amy was my idea to share this information with others.
Dermot asked the coach to explain how her dating app worked.
She explained, “So I’m no matchmaker.” ‘I sort of leverage the most valuable thing we have right now – the dating apps are a gift. However, they can be intimidating. Many people feel uncomfortable using dating apps.
“My four-month program was designed to show you the most authentic version of you. It’s not about how others think you should see yourself.
It also gives you the ability to choose your date and puts you in control of the process. It gives you the ability to ask the right questions, find out if your values align with the person and have fun. It can be difficult for many people, but I try my best to help them through this.
Like a marathon coach, you would hire one to help you train, which is how I portray myself in dating.
Amy (right) explains how she went on several date incognito, within earshot from the bar, as well as her ability to read and interpret body language of clients
Alison then mentioned how Amy has even been with people on their first dates to see how they interacquaint.
Amy said that she has been on many dates incognito, all within earshot of the bar. I can interpret body language to coach clients.
She went on to spill the beans and offered a few dating tips to viewers who may not have $10,000 going spare.
Amy stated that positive energy is her first tip. While dating apps may be great, many people don’t like them. This can be uncomfortable. However, if your attitude is positive, and you are looking for a change in careers, this will help you to have an amazing experience.
The woman continued, “Also when you’re putting your self out there through a dating app., really get specific about yourself and what you want.
I think so often people are hoping to be chosen and want everyone to like them, but we’re actually just as defined by the people who don’t like us, by the ones who do.’
Be specific. You can say you are looking for a partner and would like to have children. Is there a better example than a woman who has wit and humour? Show off who you really are.
Amy added that rejecting someone isn’t a bad thing and said, “Rejection is just a redirection.” People are good at telling you about themselves or showing you, which is a great thing. Then we can find the right person.
Emotional human beings are naturally emotional so it’s natural. It can be very daunting. Although it can be frustrating when someone does not show up, it is a blessing. You’re showing them that they are not in the same place and vibrating at the exact same rate as you. It’s perfectly fine.
Dermot ended by asking Amy about her “no shenanigans” rule until the date of four.
Amy said, “I give my opinion and my clients have the freedom to choose what they wish to do.” “It’s important to establish an emotional bond with your clients before you can have one.
I say, “Date one”, two, three and you are free to kiss, make out, or go on with your day. It doesn’t matter what you do after date three. However, I don’t think it matters to me if my clients fall into the same trap as I did: going too fast.